IS HE A PLAYER?

Dear DL,

I've been kinda seeing this amazing guy for the last month. He's so hot and charming, but just doesn't seem to have the time for a real relationship. He doesn't call or text me when he says he will, and doesn't want to introduce me to his friends. He doesn't care to meet my friends either, although they've already labeled him as a 'Player.' How can I know if he is?

Thank you for writing in. 'THE PLAYER' is masterful at dating and juggling women like Jekyll and Hyde: Gorgeous, bold and an absolute charmer one minute, then missing in action the next. You need to pay attention on the signs between player and a keeper before becoming emotionally invested. Don't love a guy who won't love you back. Here are some signs to know if your man is a player.

1. He's always to busy to see you and doesn't want to make plans just in case another opportunity arises.

2. He doesn't call when he says he will.

3. He doesn't care to discuss the relationship or future.

4. He doesn't introduce you to his friends and isn't interested in meeting yours.

5. When he does introduce you it's as a 'friend.'

6. He's hot and cold, making you feel amazing one minute and unworthy the next.

7. He's more interested in getting physical, rather than getting to know you and taking the time to have a real conversation.

8. It's a one-way relationship and your the one making all the plans for the both of you.

On a final note I would like to say make sure you know your worth. You are worth so much more than a booty call or someone's side piece. A man...A real man will be proud to have you in his arms, puts your needs first, openly discusses the relationship and where it's giong, is interested in getting to know you and always calls you just to hear your voice. Don't be so quick to give him the booty without making him wait to get to know the real you. If he's impatient, then he's not good enough for you. Communication is the key to any successful relationship. One-sided relationships just don't work. Don't make a million excuses for why things aren't perfect. You deserve better and when you finally find a guy who would do anything for you, you'll know youv'e found a keeper.

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